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The next morning, he says, the general manager called Richard into his office. One in three! But Tammy, 39, is game to give it another go, if the right opportunity presents itself. Six tips from a reader with a lot of experience. Most states have laws making public sex a crime. Depending on the state, you could even be charged with a sex crime.
Does it seem distasteful? Almost a third of the 1,plus respondents said they've had sex on a golf course.
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John, a bar manager who asked us not to use his last name, wound up with a woman in a greenside bunker at North Carolina's Ballantyne resort early one morning in the s. The maintenance crew would often find them before dawn, wrapped in blankets or sleeping bags. But their answers are interesting all the same. If you told us you hadn't done the deed on a golf course, we asked why.
Apologies for the mental image that might have created. Some people would be like, No way I'm going to have sex on a golf course. Not to mention trespassing. This is serious stuff, England says. For some, though, it's more than that. Minor stuff, mainly. Around the same time, a young man we'll call Richard was working at a golf course in his native Ontario.
The definition of lewd varies from state to state, but it's safe to say that having sex in a public place always qualifies. The grass is wet and cold, I'm too exposed, I'm not interested in this. It was secluded, and the greens were smooth and soft, and pretty flat.
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Dew is a common complaint, along with grass stains, bugs and darkness. If you're going to do that, at least keep it off the green.
Ninety percent of the people who've had golf-course sex enjoyed it enough to recommend it to others. Tammy Gollihue, an Ohio paralegal, has done it only once on a golf course--while she and her husband, Jamey, played a deserted public course one evening last summer. I always remind them that the song isn't meant to be an instructional manual, and I ask them to please not mention my name if they're arrested.
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Probably not. The green is the most popular place for sex. It's in our nature. Almost three-quarters of our survey takers said they were worried about getting caught. I'm more comfortable at our home course. Hey, it's summertime. Which should come as no surprise to Brooklyn songwriter Jonathan Coulton.
We're not claiming this was a scientific survey, representative of all golfers.
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A middle-age Dartmouth graduate who asked for anonymity--we'll call him Matt--has fond memories of golf-course hookups in his college days. It was awkward, but I wasn't scared they were going to arrest us or anything. It wouldn't be the last time they got busy there.
But I wasn't too concerned about it then. But not too worried: Among that group, 72 percent said the fear of being discovered actually added to the appeal. I don't know the course and would be scared. The practice area, normally close to the clubhouse and thus a likely place to be noticed in flagrante delicto, is least popular--though 11 percent say they've done it there anyway. The respondents were almost all male, and 60 percent were 24 to 44 years old. What's not to like?
The question is, what women want sex country club a "public place"? For some people, risk-taking is a big part of what motivates them. Note, too, that fewer than 5 percent of our respondents said they've been caught--and none of them reported any serious consequences.
His first experience was more than 50 years ago, but he'll never forget it.
It's a site of competition, friendship, tradition and memories. This means one of the golfers in your usual foursome has probably done it.
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Is it legal to have sex on a golf course? On a scale ofwith 1 being the worst place to have sex and 10 being the best, our survey respondents gave the golf course a solid 7, on average. Are you concerned about the legality, or being caught? On the other, inhibition. But other states take a tougher line. That would be a great place to have sex. So your defense might be that, in picking a spot on a secluded golf course in the middle of the night, you reasonably expected to go unnoticed.
Fairways 35 percent and tee areas 30 percent were next most common. Beer cans, wine bottles and champagne corks were pretty standard leave-behinds. Because Dartmouth dormitories didn't have a lot of single rooms, "we had sex in a of places outdoors" during the summer and fall terms. But they're by no means the only ones.
Eighty percent of our women want sex country club say they have gotten it on in the great outdoors. He took a date out onto the course one night, and they spent some quality time on the second green. Matt and his girlfriend were never caught in the act, but Steve Lyon, Dartmouth's golf-course superintendent fromsays his staff encountered 50 to other couples during his time there.
Two-thirds of our respondents have had sex on the course multiple times. Hank, a college student from Connecticut, is a self-described "golf purist. We recently asked golfers to complete an online survey about their "after-hours" experiences. They considered a bunker, but then remembered an uncomfortable experience at the beach.
They look at a golf course--usually in the wee hours, framed by moonlight, perhaps--and think, You know what? Lyon didn't let it bother him much.
He repaired them just like he would take care of an unfixed ball mark. Thinking about all the chemicals in them, I guess that wasn't so smart. But golf, sure. Maybe this is their year. A golf course is a special place. College golf courses naturally attract a lot of nighttime romantics, because, you know. Courts in some states have ruled that couples were not in public if they were hidden from passers-by--in a parked car on a dark road, for example, says San Francisco lawyer Deborah England.
Twelve percent say they're in double-digits. We just gathered all our stuff and left. If you're caught in the act, you're likely to be charged with indecent exposure or commission of a lewd act, or both. More than 80 percent--far and away the biggest response--said the main reason was, "I've never had the opportunity.
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Or they'd go scurrying from the course as its sprinklers came on. Stan, who works in the entertainment industry, chose a very specific place at his country club: a spot on the 11th fairway where he consistently had trouble hitting an accurate approach shot. Half our respondents said they'd done it there. Happy Ending: Hooking Up. August 01, Share this story Facebook Twitter LinkedIn.